i don't mind helping people out, really.
for the most part i love helping people.
however, it does rub me the wrong way when people ask for a favor when they don't even know me.
they'll call and instead of even a "how are you?" small talk, they'll just ask for... whatever.
call me selfish, but i guess i want to be known.
or at least not feel like i'm only being called for that one thing.